client or trainee

BARNETT WEISS budweiss at verizon.net
Fri Sep 1 19:15:42 CDT 2006


One of the things that I have not seen addressed here which may have been already raised in another string prior to the ones that I have witnessed is the very nature of the contract that is established between the director/trainer and the group whether training group or other once a person has decided that they wish to participate.  When I was in training, there was no form that I recall that had to be signed in which we were directed to take responsibility for ourselves. It appeared that it was assumed, rightly or wrongly, professional or not professional, that was the way it was.  I certainly never asked anyone at any of the hudreds of public sessions that I ran for the Moreno's or elsewhere to sign anything like this. Still, I am considering putting something like this together for workshops and public sessions and any trainings that I create in the future.  It would seem to me that this would be something of a policy issue for those who advertise themselves as Being
 certified at any level through the ASGPP. 

I have moved to the point of wanting to have people sign a document prior to participating in any event in which they may be a protagonist in particular. It is a little along the lines of the warm up proceedures which I indicated in a previous note where everyone always has the right to opt out of the action and remain an observer with the caveat that they may come back in and join the action at any time that they choose and they will be assisted as best can be done to be integrated into the group as more active participants with the reservation that they cannot become protagonists at least for this evening.  WHile the following is a bit more stringent than I would like, it none the less addresses some of my concerns and is in the legal form used by many programs with which I have been involved over the past several years which are enormously demanding and need the person entering to take responsibility for themselves. This is not for a therapy group, which I would also use
 some form with. The EMDR folks debated over and over a decent form as the technique did not then and to my knowledge still has no professional groups approval as a fully researched and recognized therapy despite the tremendous results and it's having been endorsed so thoroughly by many of the finest theorists and practitioners especially in the PTSD field. 

Here is a kind of contract used by the Hellinger trained people that I think is worth considering for anyone joining a training group and for anyone who may choose to become a protagonist in an open session. 

It points to the depth of the work that we are going to do together as well as giving the person a chance to really put themselves as fully as possible into the space prior to entering or not. 
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All Workshop participants must sign prior to participating in the session:

I understand that this session,training workshop, may bring up issues of a highly personal nature that may cause me to experience that may cause me to experience emotional or physical responses that may be unexpected and/or unpleasant. Further, I understand that I may experience mental, emotional, physical, or spiritual distress and that such distress may cause unpleasant feelings. What is experienced in this sesson, workshop, training may create physical responses on my part and on the part of other participants. I understand that there is a risk of accident, injury, and emotional distress. I aggree to assume this risk including and not limited to the types of responses described. I affirm that I do not suffer from any mental of physical impairment, and have not been diagnosed at any point with a disorder, condition, or injury, either physical or mental that would make it inadviseable for me to assume such risks.
This workshop, session, training is not designed as a substitute for therapy or as a substitute for any other form of professional consultation. The session, workshop, training is designed as an educational venue only. 
By signing below, I willingly agree to the proceeding statements and to hold harmless from any liability the facilitator, organizers, and participants and observers attending this workshop, session, training.
I understand that I can leave any of the presentations at any time for any reason.  ( EST now Landmark Education Seminars would have a real problem with that last one although strickly speaking it is also true there.)


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Ann Hale <annehale at swva.net> wrote:     v\:* {  BEHAVIOR: url(#default#VML) } o\:* {  BEHAVIOR: url(#default#VML) } w\:* {  BEHAVIOR: url(#default#VML) } .shape {  BEHAVIOR: url(#default#VML) }    st1\:*{behavior:url(#default#ieooui) }                 The Australian and New Zealand Psychodrama  Association Board of Examiners has had in place a certification track for  sociometrists for at least twenty years.  There are a number of certified  sociometrists. The Toronto Centre training process covers an in depth set of  training criteria for the sociometry training and is required to advance through  the various levels. Other training programs here may be the same, so it is not  uncarted territory as you suggest. Ann
    ----- Original Message ----- 
   From:    Adam Blatner    
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   Sent: Friday, September 01, 2006 6:42    AM
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   Dear Hamish, 
      Boy, you ask an intriguing and    difficult question, but a great one, with several facets:  First, more    people in Australia / New Zealand are using psychodrama in non-therapy    settings, business, education, etc. This is excellent, and I think it promises    to be a great frontier for the field. The contract is unclear, though, on    several levels.
       The first question might    involve the implied course of training: In some situations, it's just a    continuing education program, the completion of which implies no stamp of    mastery. Some folks go through trainings and come out no wiser than they went    in. The advantage here is that the trainer is not perceived by the world as a    gatekeeper, one who theoretically assess whether or not the trainee has    fulfilled all the requirements of a certain degree of mastery. 
         In trainer    programs where that is implied, you have the problem of the dual role: Some    folks not only have "issues" that they work on, but in fact are not capable of    delivering the services you advocate (e.g., group work, qualified    sociometrist, etc.) to the degree that you would feel comfortable approving of    them, recommending them, sending a relative or friend to them for work. In    other words, they should not have been allowed to graduate! 
    
         This is touchy,    but I think it is so. Some are simply not bright enough, some just don't    really do the work, some are so laced with resistances that they do the work    on the surface, but not deep down. (or as the Gestalt therapist Fritz Perls    put it: "Many people don't really want to stop being neurotic; they just want    to get better at it.")  Some can work through their issues and have    enough compensatory strengths that they'll be great at group work. I don't    have a belief that one must be free of problems to achieve full competence in    the role. But neither do I believe that everyone can reach this level of    mastery and that we should be uncritically accepting regarding assessing    competence.
              There's a difference between uncritical acceptance of helping someone along in    their journey--that Carl Rogers sensibility--which is valid--, and uncritical    acceptance of any level of achievement-- which is allowing a nice, seemingly    sincere, perhaps somewhat dependent and/or flattering person be certified as    an accredited psychodramatist because they've paid their money and attended    classes--but not because they've really demonstrated they can "cut the    mustard." This is one of the reasons that there are certifying exams. It may    be an imperfect system, but it is trying to address this intrinsic need of a    professional system to establish and hold people to standards.
    
    So, back to the problem: In general    continuing education as training, the teacher isn't in this assessment for    final competence role. 
    
      Your observation is valid, in that    what is taught even when it is not psychodrama for doing therapy is still a    matter of developing personal skills in self-awareness, communications and    problem-solving, and these in turn, when one gets into the process, will    expose all manner of personal blind spots, blocks, inhibitions, and quirks.    Issues will come up, unresolved conflicts-- the stuff of deep psychodrama, as    you note. 
               Here there's a challenge of sorts:  What is the stated goal of the    training?  Some trainings remain more on the skill-acquisition level and    there's no contract to dig deep. That should be referred to a colleague who    does psychodrama as therapy. The client is expected to be able to be mature    enought to dig up his or her own personal resources, financial resources, and    personally take on the responsibility of his or her own therapy, get those    knots untied. Then back into training. 
                     Other trainings are more blurred, and the goal is not just skill-acquisition,    some sociodrama and role analysis, but it gets into the borderline of therapy.    What to do?
    
          You began by    acknowledging that you're not a TEP. What's interesting there is that at    present there is no clear certification process, curriculum, book, etc. that    speaks to a "track" for training sociometrists, applied role theory    practitioners, those who consult to business and organizations. Who would be    in a position of recognized authority to lead the way? There may be a few in    the USA who do such work, but they have retired into their professional field    and one hears very little of them at the main psychodrama meetings. They may    be more prominent in the ANZPA or other areas.
              So there's    a cultural lag-- a need to recognize this sub-field, but still the main field    of psychodrama is based on the conventional model of psychotherapy-- and    training certification is also geared to this, albeit loosely. 
    
          So, with    great authority, I can assure you...
                         that....
                           I'm not sure.   (ha ha)
    
         Seriously, I think    it might involve a fascinating role analysis (overt and covert) of what kinds    of training you offer, who comes, what they hope to get out of it, is it the    same as what you think you're offering, what kinds of transferences to you as    teacher, group leader, facilitator, mother, father, rival sibling, etc. you    evoke and play into, and so forth. Without these clarifications, can we make    generalizations that will apply?   
    
           I want    to finish with real enthusiasm for the general enterprise of your group, that    is, bringing the best of Morenian work into the task of helping all sorts of    groups work more effectively! I think this is sociatry, and in the long run    these extra-clinical applications may have a far greater impact in the world    than all the medical-model-type psychotherapeutic work put    together.     warmly, adam
    
        p.s., Your name, Hamish,    I think is related to the Scots name?  But in Yiddish, Hamish means    home-like, cozy, like family, and it reminded me of a line in the Broadway    musical play in the 1960s, Fiddler on the Roof, and the song, "If I was a Rich    Man," and the line has to do with Tevye's imagining being wealthy, and    everyone would ask him for advice, "...asking questions that would cross a    rabbi's eyes!"   So I flashed on your conundrum with that    response--your question is so complex and subtle it crosses my eyes.  ha    ha 
    
    
        ----- Original Message ----- 
     From:      Johanna and Hamish 
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     Sent: Friday, September 01, 2006 3:55      AM
     Subject: RE: client or trainee
     

          I have been      interested in this thread however I am not really qualified to respond to      original question.
      
     Here is my      situation:      I am a certified psychodramatist      (just) not a TEP.  However I have been training people experientially      in group work for ten years.
      
     Because the people      that attend my training workshops are mostly from an organisational setting      (i.e. not coming to train as therapists) a central issue in the early      training process is the realisation that the training process is      experiential and therefore going to involve some personal development.       In fact one of the key challenges in this phase is to create openness      (including emotional openness) in the training group as without this      effective training cannot really begin.  This openness is often      experienced as scary, shocking or unusual to participants who may have been      expecting a lecture process or what ever.
      
     In many ways this      is no different to the therapeutic process in groups except that      participants signing up for a therapeutic group are probably warming up to a      personal process.
      
     Some participants      find that when they become open in this way many things open up for them and      some realise that there is quite a lot of personal work to do if they want      to pursue the original desire of becoming a group worker/ group      facilitator.  Some don’t want to go down this road and so take what      they have gained and leave.  Others want to pursue the personal process      that has opened up for them.  Of cause for other people there is no      major issue and they progress through the training      process.
      
     We have a number of      trainers running a series of 9 consecutive five day modules.  We find      that the personal process is bell shaped with the deepest part of the      training journey in the middle and so we have evolved the training process      around this natural process.  I use experiential psychodrama in this      middle part of the training process.             
      
     Some participants      take some years out in the middle to do personal work and then return to      finish training with us.  Of cause some (who where perhaps motivated by      the personal element anyway) do not return rather focusing on the      therapeutic once this emerges.
      
     So ethical      questions:  Should I do the therapeutic work with people who decide      they want to do this in the middle of the training process?  Generally      they ask me because they feel comfortable with      me.
      
     If I do:       should I then run any future training programme they might return      to?  Or should one of my colleagues do      this.
      
     Thanks
     Hamish
      
      
          Hamish      Brown
     Director
      
     Zenergy
     Whole      People Co-operating in a Sustainable world
     119 Mt      Eden Rd,
     Auckland
     www.zenergyglobal.com      

      
               
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     From:      list-bounces at grouptalkweb.org [mailto:list-bounces at grouptalkweb.org]      On Behalf Of Adam Blatner
Sent: Wednesday, 30 mmmm 2006      6:12
To: list at grouptalkweb.org
Subject: client or      trainee

      
          Hello All, Responding to an      excellent professional question: Can a group member join a training group:      And responding further to Bud's      response (attached after this below):

           

          Bud's      attitude is understandable and somewhat compatible with many directors and      perhaps even Moreno's generous spirit, but it is also I      think mistaken for the following reasons. Part of this emerged with the      difficulties emerging with the encounter group fad of the      1970s:

                     There are many people who are clearly mentally ill and just want to get      better, have no aspirations to being a      therapists.

               Some      people, on the other hand, are vibrantly healthy and self-sufficient, and      while they have some mild issues that need to be worked on, they basically      have the character to train and be therapeutic for others, should they be      interested in taking on that task.

                      A significant number fall between the two, and their problems are associated      more with their interpersonal style. In the APA's Diagnostic and Statistical      Manual, the problems they encounter are noted in the category called      personality disorders, also known as "Axis 2"      disorders. 

                       Many people who have depression, anxiety, and other Axis I diagnoses are      also co-morbid, meaning they have more than one problem--not just their      anxiety, but also character or personality tendencies that set them up for      the defeats that then eventuate in depression and/or anxiety, or other      symptoms.  (Another example of co-morbidity is the way people with mild      PTSD--perhaps not fulfilling all the criteria for full      diagnoses-- and/or addiction problems may also come crashing into more      clearly Axis I types of symptom  clusters.)

                       The second and most important thing that wasn't much recognized before the      mid-1960s is the pervasiveness of varying degrees of Axis II tendencies,      which can be mild, moderate, or severe, and more, the key here is that these      folks don't have primary anxiety--i.e., feeling ego-alien or uncomfortable      with their own symptoms; rather they are ego-syntonic with their life style,      whether it be passive-aggressive, obsessive-compulsive, hypomanic,      hystrionic, borderline, narcissistic, etc. What this means is that they      become upset when people get tired of their behaviors, abandon them, divorce      them, fire them from their jobs, but they don't see what they did that got      people so riled up!  Folks with character problems tend to deny      it, minimize it, and so forth. Now we're getting closer to the games people      play in wanting to become "therapists."

                     It doesn't matter if you buy the diagnostic categories I've      mentioned--they're just tools, and I'm not all that attached to them in      their specifics. What we're talking about is, in Eric Berne's Transactional Analysis language, the      "games people play."

                      I will confess that I have some mild characterological tendencies, and I      haven't met anyone yet who doesn't have a bit, so we're talking about how      much, and whether a person is really committed to cleaning up his or her      act. Lots of folks don't really get down.

                     

               Perhaps      another factor here is whether much significant therapy can happen in a      group--especially a training group. The problem is that there is a dual      relationship: On one hand, there is the deal with my problems goal; on the      other hand, there's a bit of do you respect me as a therapist, can      you? I confess, there are people with patterns of behavior that are      intense enough, and lack of insight deep enough, and a kind of resistance to      really looking just thick enough, or lack of mental agility, so that while I      might find them okay to work with as clients, I would never ever consider      them capable of actually helping others. We have to really get clear about      this. 

                I      am afraid that there is a kind of humanistic egalitarianism-- in California it used to      be called "woo woo," that is post-Hippie "whatever" "it's all good" blind to      the actual range of issues in people. It would be nice to assume that all      can be wonderful, but there is absolutely no evidence that supports this      assumption. 

           

              So back to      the problem: I've been in groups, sometimes with people who were in      counseling programs, and it was clear to me that they were not only miles      from being ready to help others, or even begin to; but were fairly blind to      the deficits in their personalities that would be problematical: Some were      painfully inhibited, passive, reticent, highly defended; others were "drama      queens," seeking emotional catharses and tending to dominate and exhaust the      group. And so forth. Experienced group leaders could make a list of their      most trying group members. 

           

               We must      also remember that the desire to graduate, to be seen as being good as the      group leader, to be a trainer, is a common desire of people whether or not      they have the talent, ability, experience, maturity, or other role      requirements for the job. To accede to such desires is only one step away      from letting any teenager do brain surgery without having to go to medical      school, much less residency. 

           

                        So, yes, trainees who have more than the mildest of problems should indeed      have as their primary therapist someone who is out of the stream of their      own vocational guidance, someone who can confront their manipulations, and      someone to whom they don't have to hide those manipulations. They also      need someone outside the group to whom they can complain about the group      leader. (This observation is a variation on the saying, "No man is a hero to      his wife's psychotherapist.")

           

                       So it's not the "rules," that are the problem, but the actual principles      that acknowledge the reality that transferential problems will emerge, they      are common, and they are made almost impossible to address if the group has      any other agenda than the commitment to explore the interactions themselves,      with a view to clearing up blocks and blind spots. A secondary hope to be      appreciated, admired, respected, to prove competence, to gain final approval      for vocational advancement, is a significant dual relationship. Add the      financial element: What is the group member paying for, therapy or training?      This further muddies the water. 

           

              Well, sorry,      but I want to indicate to the group members that the more conservative      practitioners aren't just defending their guild status, but trying to      address actual complexities in dual      relationships.      I'm open to your thoughts.      Warmly, Adam Blatner

           

           

                   ----- Original Message -----        

              From: BARNETT        WEISS 

              To: connie at souldrama.com ; list at grouptalkweb.org        

              Sent:        Tuesday, August 29, 2006 11:52 AM

              Subject: Re:        Question

               

              Of course, I am not a TEP so I can only answer        from my perspective having trained many persons in the past in some of the        work in many venues.  I really don't see what the problem is in        welcoming a person from one of your groups into a training program. If        there is to be a distinction drawn about this, I am not at all clear as to        why there should be. 

               

              Psychoanalysis to begin with and many other        psychotherapeutic approaches have implicit rules about the relationship of        the therapist to the client that exclude such conversions and even those        are somewhat murky decisions.  In most of the training programs, you        have to go through the therapy yourself to be more completely aware of        what your clients are going to be experiencing when you work. So the        trainee has to find someone else to do the therapy with them.         

               

              In the training groups that I have lead, I was        doing the therapy for everyone at first and then working with the more        advanced students co-directing the psychodrama's of other members of the        group as we went along with greater and greater hands off as they built        their skills and confidence. I really don't quite see the distinction        here. I also made myself vulnerable at times and became a protagonist        briefly choosing my director and working with it.         

               

              I remember a time at Beacon when Zerka asked me to direct her in her        own psychodrama as she needed to get some clarity about some things. I was        happy to do so while others in the group were quite fearful and actually        reacted very intensely when Zerka was working as it brought up a great        deal for them. While dealing with the group became quite a challenge, I        was quite confident in working with this protagonist since I knew        that I had one of the best co-directors ever...Zerka!!        

               

              In fact, I see everyone's psychodrama as being        co-directed by the so called designated Director and the protagonist        themselves. If you are not following the direction of the protagonist, in        my estimation, you are moving in the wrong direction. Words similar to        those from Zerka are emblazoned in my memory.        

               

              So again, I don't get why a client couldn't become        a trainee at any time. 

               

              Blessings, all,        Bud

Connie Miller        <connie at souldrama.com> wrote:

                         Dear          Adam: 

                   

                   Muddy?? This is a          swamp!           

                   

                  Ultimately          it is the decsion of the trainer.  My groups are for "Training in          Aciton Methods"  and they also comprise those wanting psychodrama          certification.  This in fact stimulates those in training to want          to get certification later in psychodrama.  Otherwise I feel like          we will never have those certified to do psychodrama increase          and  psychodramatists will then become a special and          exclusive group and will die.  Also this is why I agree with you          about teaching different parts of psychodrama separately to help spread          psychodrama.  And of course I would never allow anyone in the group          who was not using the group methods in thier own work but only wanted to          use the group for therapy.

                   

                  I however am          studying for the written part of the tep exam where it asks under the          ethics part,,, what do you do if someone          in your therapy group wants to join your training          group?  Technically I guess the          right anser is not allowing duel relationships but is          this what the all the traianers are actually          doing?? Right now, I have only met one.  this is why I am looking          for group feedback.          

                   

                  Thanks          Connie

                   

                   

                  -----Original Message-----
From: Adam Blatner          [mailto:adam at blatner.com]
Sent: Monday, August 28, 2006 08:39          AM
To: list at grouptalkweb.org
Subject: Re:          Question

                  Dear Peter, Connie, and          group.

                                  Peter, your open-hearted attitude is commendable, but I wonder if you          have considered the potential for less-than-worthy motivations. There          are people who want the status of professionalism, but are yet unwilling          to take on the full responsibility for self-management that this          implies. What I'm referring to is the role of "patient" or "client," in          which the therapist has a more non-judgmental attitude of "I'll try to          help you at the level that you are functioning." Some of these levels          can be quite immature, entitled, un-self-modulated, dependent,          passive-aggressive, and so forth. Many people are not willing to live up          to the simplest requirements of being responsible enough to pay          regularly and in good faith, to show up regularly and on time, of          refusing to be civil under the excuse of victimhood or the right to          emotional
 expressiveness, and so forth.          

                                  To move to a training group is a kind of graduation into a recognition          by peers and group leader that one has moved into a full process of          taking charge of one's life. Not all issues are resolved--I quite agree          with Peter about this-- but there has been a graduation of sorts that is          the equivalent of finishing therapy in the sick or dysfunctional role.          

                   

                       The          problem is tricky, and it is a dual role-- clients wish for          unconditional regard, but this term is misleading. It confuses the          archetypal maternal unconditionality--I'll draw you forth however you          may be, age 1, age 3, age 8, age  80...

                                     and the archetypal paternal conditionality: You are recognized as being          qualified to swim, do brain surgery, take 2nd level geometry, only when          you have clearly demonstrated your mastery of the first level or other          realistic requirements.

                   

                     Alas, the          actual requirements for training as a counselor have become hopelessly          muddy, and it is quite possible to be excessively immature and still get          into a training program somewhere, and even graduate. This is because          there are significant financial incentives to accept all comers, to keep          people in rather than wash them out, to blur and overlook deficiencies.          Arguments that the number of training programs and trainers should be          limited evokes counter-accusations of being elitist and          guild-like.  Arguments that call on the belief in the innate          goodness of people confuse the reality of people being a nexus of          hundreds of roles and role components, some of which are more talented,          and the ways strengths often compensate for, and not infrequently          disguise weaknesses. So significant discrimination is          needed.

                   

                      In some          universities, this graduation - acceptance into a graduate school -          problem of transference, dependence, and approval is circumvented by a          general policy that there be a period in which graduates must travel          elsewhere and perform for supervisors who have not been in the nurturing          role, the object of parental transference.  Perhaps later, having          demonstrated clear competence and maturity, they may be re-considered          for a position in the upper graduate or even lower faculty level.           It's an interesting challenge--perhaps one that requires a hard look at          the limits of good feeling, tele,  etc.

                   

                        I          hope I haven't muddied the issues too much. Warmly,          Adam

                               ----- Original Message            ----- 

                      From:            Peter            Howie 

                      To:            connie at souldrama.com ; list at grouptalkweb.org            

                      Sent:            Sunday, August 27, 2006 10:49 PM

                      Subject:            Re: Question

                       

           Hi Connie,

It is often a natural step.            The psychodrama groups are developmental. The training is            developmental. Not all work can be done in a training groups and hence            experiential groups are required as well for trainees. Not all            development can be done in experiential groups and hence training is            available. What does the training do? It expands a persons            functioning, their capacity for warming themselves in a spontaneous            fashion, their capacity to role reverse with others and creates mental            models for the process of doing so. While I run the groups differently            the larger purpose is the same - a more spontaneous            world.

Cheers

Peter Howie
Brisbane, Australia




At            12:19 PM 24/08/2006, you wrote:


           I was wondering what            other trainers do when  a group member wants to join the            psychodrama training group. what are your feelings on them being in            both?
Connie

          

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