[IAGP:PSYCHODRAMA] a response to a grieving community

[Connie Miller]

About Clare and to those who are involved in this discussion:


One of Clare's last requests was that we help others really get to know her more on a personal level. She realized how little we knew of her personally and wanted to share herself. I do not feel that we broke confiedentaillity or ethics by honoring her wishes. She was not a client but a good friend to all. I also want you to know that in the ceremony we included the entire psychodrama community and the love you shared and all the blessings that occurred on the stage that she so worked so hard to maintain. She watched the last Souldrama about building bridges and peace.

Tom, John and Ann, I know you were honoring her and protecting her confidentiality our of love and respect. I know Clare would appreciate and love that.

 More importantly I also know Clare spent her life trying to foster peace and goodness and the last thing she would want now is her community being in disagreement about a ceremony honoring her while she was alive. 

If we are to truly honor her, let us remember what she dedicated her life to and that was peace so let there be peace and love among us.


-----Original Message-----
From: John Wenger [mailto:alba at ihug.co.nz]
Sent: Tuesday, February 13, 2007 01:42 AM
To: list at grouptalkweb.org
Subject: RE: [IAGP:PSYCHODRAMA] a response to a grieving community

Agreed Ann, I'm glad you brought this into the conversation, and I think
sociometry and ethics need to be subjects of an ongoing conversation, too.
Regards,
John Wenger
Auckland NZ

-----Original Message-----
From: list-bounces at grouptalkweb.org [mailto:list-bounces at grouptalkweb.org]
On Behalf Of Thomas Treadwell
Sent: 13 February 2007 02:50
To: Ann Hale
Cc: grouptalk; iagp
Subject: Re: [IAGP:PSYCHODRAMA] a response to a grieving community

I so agree with Ann's point of view - what was written may have been in good

faith - and boundaries need to be respected.

tom

Quoting Ann Hale <annehale at swva.net>:

> I understand Connie and Manuela's descriptions of being at Boughton Place
in
> January and with Clare Danielsson as a desire to reassure a grieving
> community that Clare was actively appreciated by many and had moments of
> being surrounded by a loving community. I am however disturbed by the
> description of what for me would be private moments and ones which I would
> like to have held in confidence. Confidentiality is held as a high value
in
> our community and death of a person does not waive the right to privacy.
> 
> I apologize if this sounds like a lecture. I do not mean it to be nor to
> detract from a positive desire given by Connie and Manuela to share an
> important moment of theirs with Clare. The fact of a person having a
> treatment, the experience of the reiki person and the ceremony details
cause
> in me an alarm. Confidentiality can be breached for the best of
intentions.
> Ann E. Hale, M.,A., TEP
> 
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
> 
> 


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