my insensitivity

[Connie Miller]

Dear Ann,
Thank you for your apology for it is a truly heart felt and humble. This was truly a gift to recieve. I know how much you cared for Clare.
Blessings, Connie

-----Original Message-----
From: Ann Hale [mailto:annehale at swva.net]
Sent: Tuesday, February 13, 2007 07:12 PM
To: 'grouptalk'
Cc: 'iagp'
Subject: my insensitivity


To Connie and Manuela, I have been insensitive and you were hurt by my concerns regarding confidentiality. I regret this and make this public apology to you. I also appreciate the comments from others that identify cultural diferences in managing moments of grief. Being private persons is something I shared with Clare.

As I mentioned in the original email I am pleased to know she was surrounded by a loving community with you both and others in January. Perhaps it will help to know that I actually received the email each of you sent out a total of eight times as I receive both iagp and grouptalk emails; four (two from each of you) upon hearing of her death from Rebecca and four again this week. I have known Clare 37 years and we have a long and fruitful history. Each time an email arrived the issues I wrote about were raised again for me. Since I choose to get both I am not complaining, rather "explaining".

At a more appropriate time perhaps we can discuss the more complex aspects of any other issues. 


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