AW: Alzheimer's

[Jorge Burmeister]

Dear Peter Parkinson,

this sounds fantastic and most admirable. Thank you very much for sharing
this part of your life story with all of us. May God bless you and all
involved in this project.

With deep respect

Jorge Burmeister


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[mailto:list-bounces at grouptalkweb.org]Im Auftrag von Peter Parkinson
  Gesendet: Montag, 22. Januar 2007 05:41
  An: list at grouptalkweb.org
  Betreff: RE: Alzheimer's


  Alzheimer''s.

  Doing psychodrama with such people is one thing that I have done very
little and with no results to report. I have. However I had the opportunity
to direct and share in the care of my mother's final 10 years of her life.
Her care was all based on psychodramatic principles and my wife and children
and her professional carers were trained to be her auxiliaries. We did a
role analysis of both her current functioning and the functioning that she
dreamed of throughout her life.



  We thus worked appropriately to reduce her overdeveloped roles, expand her
creative roles and give her opportunities that she had never had in her
life.



  Her overdeveloped controller was based on an assumption of being
unlovable. So we were able to encompass her matrix of all reality to the
point that one of her final statements was "You know dear, when you know
that you are loved on this side (of life/death) then it makes it so much
easier to move to the other side."



  The overdeveloped avoider of reality led her to alcohol, other drugs, tv
day and night, and a dominant bullying personality. We became dominant
auxiliaries and applied cold turkey to all these, and insisted on her going
to social and creative events every day.



  She was met with people who could fight just as well as she could.



  3 months of this and her dementia had lifted, she, with a minder took
holidays with her old friends, played bridge, resumed painting, went
gambling and eventually launched her own 33 ft sloop, upon which, with
assistance of a skipper/minder, she spent much of her last 10 years of her
life with her old crew from her yacht racing days.



  Dementia did catch up with her, as did a fractured hip or two, but
behaving as auxiliaries towards her and keeping her role repertoire forward
in everyone's mind together with the able supervision and mentoring of
Isabelle Sherrard, gave my mother a most wonderful final 10 years of her
life, and for myself the great honour of being part of it.



  The whole tale is massive and soon I will write it up as an article or
other publication.



  Cheers from



  Peter Parkinson

  Aoteoroa New Zealand

  Practitioner/Educator

  Physician

  PhD etc






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  Sent: Saturday, 20 January 2007 12:06 p.m.
  To: grouptalk
  Subject: Alzheimer's



      This seems to be the week for discussions about very serious
disorders/diseases/states of being. I was asked today about the use of
psychodrama with people with early to moderate Alzheimer's. Years ago I
worked in a day treatment for elderly de institutionalized people who had
lived for years at Hudson River Psych Center. They got great joy out of
enacting childhood dreams of what they wanted to be when they grew up. But
they didn't specifically have Alzheimer's. So,...has anyone out there had
any experience using psychodrama with people with Alzheimer's disease?









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