self expression
Erica Hollander
ericahollander at comcast.net
Sun Jul 29 17:19:07 CDT 2007
Adam and others,
As to what I had in mind when mentioning that some self expression
can be destructive, I was thinking of the horrible shooting at the
Governor's mansion in CO last week. A young man walked in in a tux,
declared himself Emperor, and threatened the use of a gun several
times. He was killed by security officers. Just an example.
Adam, I do not disagree with anything you say, but do not find it
answers my query. Do you agree that self expression is generally a
good thing in therapy? I think most of us would. But I am not at
all sure that affirmation from others is all that that is about.
Clearly it is about that sometimes. I don't know quite what I am
looking for by way of an answer, but something seems lacking still.
I guess you could also say that helping others is therapeutic or
behaving well is therapeutic or doing good is therapeutic, or that
prayer is therapeutic, or meditation, and maybe all those things are,
but isn't self expression the very basic idea that we work toward in
psychodrama all the time? And it has its limits, in evil, in
maladaptive behaviors, as we are saying. But is self expression not
what we are after when we say "stay a half step behind the
protagonist"? We are looking to the process to free the person
inside the problem from the problem in a sense. So we have some
faith in the notion that the person within will be healthy if
expressed. That isn't always the case, as Georgia points out. Yet I
have found in my work with sex offenders that I have no more reason
to worry about their self expression in the group than in any other
groups I work with. Perhaps I am not articulating this well.
Muddling through. erica
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