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Hi Marcia,<br>Brilliant.<br>I've been doing a similar version of it in therapy contract.<br>hugs,<br>anath<br><br>> To: annehale@swva.net; list@grouptalkweb.org<br>> Subject: Attachment and supervision<br>> From: mkarp11444@aol.com<br>> Date: Sun, 5 Apr 2009 18:20:12 +0000<br>> <br>> Dear Anne, et al, <br>> <br>> I have found a new way to supervise a trainee director in action. Before they begin with the protagonist I say to the director, I would like to talk with you about the way I will supervise you . I would like to know what kind of parenting you had. Did you have a dominant, submissive, or abandoning mother ? What was she like towards you in giving you direction or help. What was your father like? Who was the dominant one between the two parents? The reason I am asking is that I don't want to repeat what you don't need and I would like to give you the kind of supervision that you may need." If they say, " My mother was overcritical, and dominant", I say, "Ok, how about I don't interrupt you until you feel you need help. Let's keep the relationship open and you can ask me anything, as a supervisor, when you feel you need it." If they say, " My mother was never around, abandoned me or never guided me, I say, " Ok, I could double you when I might have a suggestion, or/ and I could remain close enough by asking you what you are thnking, what you might like to do next, and keep an open contact but you'll know I am with you and guiding you when you need help. " Something like that, I do. It has changed the quality of my supervision and the students report it is more spot on re: what they need from me, as supervisor/trainer.<br>> <br>> Marcia <br>> Sent using BlackBerry® from Orange<br>> <br>> -----Original Message-----<br>> From: "Ann Hale" <annehale@swva.net><br>> <br>> Date: Sat, 4 Apr 2009 11:25:29 <br>> To: grouptalk<list@grouptalkweb.org><br>> Subject: Psychodrama training and AAI<br>> <br>> <br>> Grouptalk mailing list<br>> List@grouptalkweb.org<br>> http://grouptalkweb.org/mailman/listinfo/list_grouptalkweb.org<br>> <br>> Grouptalk mailing list<br>> List@grouptalkweb.org<br>> http://grouptalkweb.org/mailman/listinfo/list_grouptalkweb.org<br><br /><hr />Rediscover Hotmail®: Get quick friend updates right in your inbox. <a href='http://windowslive.com/RediscoverHotmail?ocid=TXT_TAGLM_WL_HM_Rediscover_Updates1_042009' target='_new'>Check it out.</a></body>
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